1. I will be part of the decision making process in my marriage and
family at all times.
2. People outside my immediate family, including ex's, in-laws, and
children cannot make plans that affect my life without my consent.
3. I will not be responsible for the welfare of children for whom I
can set no limits.
4. I must be consulted about which children will live with us, when
they can visit and how long
5. I will not be solely responsible for housework, chores will be
distributed fairly.
6. I will be consulted on all family financial matters.
7. Others may not violate my private space at home, nor take or use
my possesions without my permission.
8. I will not be treated as an *outsider* in my own home.
9. My spouse and stepchildren will treat me with respect.
10. Our marriage is our FIRST priority, and we will address all
issues together.
- From "When You Marry a Man with Children"
Barabara Mullen Keenan
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